my husband is super superficial, I guess I am too, we've been together for 15 years and we recently just had our first child, by the way she is perfect and gorgeous and everything I could have wanted. I don't know how to get me and my husband back on track the way we used to be. it seems like he's pushing me away no matter what I do, I cook I clean, I put makeup on when I'm most tired and just want to relax. I take care of the baby and never complain, I don't mind at all. He recently started going to the gym and injured himself and now he can't go and he is really depressed over that, meanwhile I'm depressed over our relationship and how he doesn't seem to care about me at all. He's rude, not compassionate, he says the most terrible things sometimes and I don't know where it's coming from or what happened to him. I still have 15 pounds to lose before I'm back at my pre-pregnancy weight and I have absolutely no support. Everytime I try to talk to him he just gets angry and frustrated and doesn't want to talk at all... about anything to do with our relationship. I'm scared, I'm depressed, I've never felt so alone in my life. Thank the stars for my baby, if it was just me I would have already left. he was a dream come true when we brought the baby home, that were off after 2 weeks. then going back over it in my mind he wasn't even that supportive when I was pregnant, I did everything myself until the last 2 weeks when I absolutely couldn't. I'd appreciate any advice that would help me save my best friend and I from heading down a really shitty road..