Long story short my dad has a girlfriend he's been with for about 7 years now .

Sounds cliche but she's not the best "step mom" nonetheless "mother" to her own 2 kids .

Her is ALL about my dad and his attention. She needs his attention 24/7 .

I married and had my family young . I am an older sister to 2 girls . Which are now 18 and 16.

They been though hell with my dad and his girlfriend many , many , MANY times my dad has never chosen my sisters b4 his gf.

My dad was never like that b4 he met this chick.

He was a good dad . As a mother and wife of my own family it hurt to have step away and not butt in for my sisters . Bc family is SO big to me and to see someone hurt my sisters ( the gf getting in my sisters face and calling them out , calling our mother a bitch , never letting my dad have quality time with my sisters OR his grandson (my son) . There would be countless times she would either say she's killing herself or she would show up to where he was at .

Now . My dad has never provided a home for me and my sisters . It was always my mom. But he gave us love . That changed .

Sooo she ended up getting pregnant by my dad clearly. Mind you she has 2 kids a daughter in high school and a son. But btw the son is being physically and mentally abused by his own dad which the Dad has full custody of she just doesn't care. Her life is my dad and the baby.

Well today . Is the last day MY sister is here b4 she leaves to Pittsburgh for collage . So I been asking my dad if hes gonna have something . And tonight we're gonna get OUR family together for my sister .

Well just so happens it's her daughters birthday today . ( I do not have a problem with her kids I feel bad for her kids . There were many times where my dads gf would put the babies crib infont of the door so my dad wouldn't leave and I would have to go over there pick up my sisters and talk to the kids . ) and my dad lives with his gf and the kids . My sisters do not have a room there . So their home is with my mom .

Well my dad is stressing Bc his gf wants all of us to sing happy birthday to her daughter just to be spiteful towards my sister .

And it's 7 years I have kept my mouth shut and tonight I think I might just let it all out .

I'm so sick of her controlling my dad nonetheless think she can control me .

And by the way Bc I think being a Mom is such a blessing and calling . But shouldn't it be herself to have a party for her daughter ?

Nope . Bc last year she didn't get her daughter NOTHING (with a job ) MY grandma took her out to eat and got her a cake .

But tell me why she's making my dad stress over HER daughters birthday !

Ugh . Sorry guys I just needed to vent .

I am 7 months pregnant and I don't wanna go there but I'm just hurt and I just can't watch someone hurt my sister like that.