I'm going to kill my brother for cheating on my sister-in-law!!!

I just need to get this out and since I can't really tell anyone I know I figured her was a good place to vent!

So I just found out last night from my mom that my S-I-L and bro are separated. Apparently he has cheated on her 3 times with 3 different woman! 1st while they were dating, 2nd when they were engaged and 3rd while married! I was so mad when my mom told me I was shaking and in shock so I couldn't even cry.

My S-I-L is the sweetest most kind and selfless person I have ever known and I can not believe he would do this to her! He told her while they were on vacation out of state. Prob hopping she wouldn't storm out and leave him right away if they weren't home. But both my mom and I agreed that we would have left his sorry ass without a car...and maybe punched him in the face! 😡

Don't get me wrong I love my brother. (He's 20 months younger than me) We have always been very close. My husband and I were even considering making him and my

S-I-L our daughters god parents. So I think this is partly why I am so mad cause I am close to him. And no one not even his wife knew what was going on! Ugh!!! I'm still mad!!!

My mom was surprised I hadn't heard from my brother. But I wasn't I think he knew how I would react and was probably scared to tell me. My sister already refused to talk to him. I prob would have chewed him out!

I immediately txt my S-I-L and told her she was the greatest woman I have ever known for not divorcing him no the spot. I don't think I could be that strong to still consider staying with him after all that.

We always joked that if he even messed up we'd keep her and get rid of him...And I'm still good with that right now!

I was so angry last night every other word in my head was not the best. I prob thought of every name you could call someone! (I only "cuss" when I am really mad) and honestly I would have called him a fukin ass hole last night but my daughter woke up so I was holding her while I was talking about it with my husband. Probably a good thing.

My mom and I are driving down to see my S-I-L today. I'm so worried about her she said she's not eating or sleeping and she's already so tiny! Please pray for her and my brother. He need professional help with his addiction. And we're still not sure if he even really wants any help. And pray for me so I don't say too much to her I know she prob already heard everyone else's opinion on my brother I thinking that's the last thing she needs right now.