meds suck

Okay so my man use to have an alcohol problem and now is sober. He is on meds for sleeping and some depression. He can get hard and please me howecer he only can climax with a BJ and my hands if at all. This is hard because I have health issues that take my hands out a lot and nausea issues. He has a hard time staying fully erect and says I get too wet for him to feel anything other then wet and warm with no pressure. I need some help because he has had to use porn to climax after sex and I hate the thought of this for I see it as cheating because of my beliefs and faith. I was thinking maybe he needs viagra but not sure. so the other day he asked for me to look into things and so here I am. Help me out cuz I want to figure this out and if we can't maybe we shouldn't get married?