I already have a daughter that literally just turned 13. Me and my husband have been together for 16 years and married for 2. Right now we are trying to have another baby. I was young when I had my daughter, I was 19. So now that I'm older, more mature, settled down with our own house we're ready to expand our family.

Now, when I talk to my family about wanting another baby I just get nothing but negative feedback. Such as "Your daughter is 13 now why on earth would you want to start all over", "save yourself the trouble you don't need another baby", "Don't do it!" etc etc etc....

There's ALOT more said but too much to post.

Then there's our daughter, she doesn't want a sister or brother mostly because she's learning about sex Ed and now knowing exactly where babies come from which traumatizing her! But I also think because it's been just the 3 of us for so long! I HAVE to admit, I am SO scared to have another baby and I'm only talking about the labor. I was very sick and it was extremely traumatizing. I hemorrhaged and lost a lot of blood. There are other things that happened but I don't want to bother or bug anyone with all the details.

But me and my husband both want another baby. I need any advice or comments as I can get. I'm very new to this app and this is my very first post to anything.

Thank you for even taking the time out of your busy day.