9dpo - AF SUCKS!!!

I couldn't sleep last night cz of all the discomfort i was feeling, cramps were getting more uncomfortable and severe (which is normal for me at least 7 days before AF). I already know I am out this month, not wasting another pregnancy test that is for sure!!! 😡😠 I am just too tired of this and will book an oppointment for me and hubby to get checked up. It's been 8 frkn cycles, we are doing it on my fertile days..i even used opk this month 😔 but still nothing. 😿