We found out a week ago that I was having a miscarriage. The medication to help the process go naturally didn't work on me so the baby is still there and I am having a D&C; on Monday. I have never had surgery before so I am so afraid! I'm just hoping for some words of encouragement or advice or testimonies of experience with this sort of thing. We're devastated and I'm terrified. I don't know anyone that's been through this in my circle of people..