When does it feel real?

Amie

I feel like im watching from the outside like there is some sort of disconnect. im 11w today. I see the baby move on u/s and im glad because thats really good and im relieved when i hear the heartbeat but it doeant feel like mine. Its like im watching a tv show or something. i have been extreamly sick and my husband has to constantly remind me its because im pregnant because to me it feels like a bad case of the flu (morning sickness body aches temp changes). so when does it feel real? and am i right to be freaking out that i still dont feel like its actually happening?