My guy and I are planning a gender reveal party nxt month .. I've never had support from my first child's father , I was completely in control and independent with everything. So this is all so new to me I would love to feel really special and for it to be completely about us and our baby , but money is tight we literally have an event every month until our baby is born. From this baby reveal party to birthdays, baby showers , holidays! It's a busy time for us ! So I was thinking maybe it would be cheaper to throw it with them ! But On top of that his sister is few weeks behind me.. So her doctor appointment isnt until two weeks after mine ! And I am soooo anxious to find out .. I've waited so long😫 Lol Anyway I don't think it's a bad idea , but at the same time , I really don't know how to feel about it . I don't wanna hurt anyone's feelings either by declining ! Ugh what would you do ?