I think my marriage of 3 years is over and its all my fault. For the past year we have been drifting apart and fighting alot, i have asked him to go to counseling but he said no, i current go for myself to try and help me, i have asked for help around the house and he still does nothing. I have lost all affection towards him, today he told me i was making life very hard for him with not being affectionate enough and i told him he was more than welcome to leave. Since ive got home he will not look at me, talk to me, literally nothing. He even left without saying goodbye or love you just now (ww have always said bye love you)