what would you do?..

I am currently 37+5 and it hurts. standing, sitting, laying, just existing hurts...but I only have 9 more days to do everything I need to to get ready for baby....I want to deep clean my whole house...paint his nursery...and do some yard work all before he comes...my husband works 7 to 4 everyday and his good for nothing friend lives with us but neither one has done anything in preparation so I feel like its all on me. Especially if I want it done right. But I'm so tired and hurt so much and still have 2 other kids to take care of. He tells me to nap and rest but I feel like that's just so I'm not asking him to do shit either. I'm afraid I'll get home from having baby and be bombarded with everything I still need to do...yet in 9 days my kids can and will wreck everything I worked to accomplish...I just don't know what to do...what would you do?