With hard work and eating extremely healthy were you able to get your prebaby body back?

Alot of women complain they can't get back in shape after a baby. they also complain they can't even do their hair or put on makeup because they don't have time. Or that their kids drive them insane. Damn if it's THAT bad WTF would anyone want a kid? Seriously can you get back your body if you are fitness oriented??? There has to be hope out there because most of these moms make marriage and motherhood look depressing. They make it seem like you have to neglect yourself to be a mom. #recently engaged