I'm like 5',8"ish and weigh about 123lb right now (but I go from that to like 128 ocasional, never any lower, depending on cycle day, stress etc.). I've never been overly obsessed with my weight and I've never tried go below my recommended weight. My mom swears I look "anorexic" and I'm basically just a skeleton which is far from the truth I promise you. I dontwear 2 pieces cuz I have a gut just like everyone else, I don't have a thigh gap or anything like that, my stomach isn't even flat, and five years ago SHE WAS LITERALLY 120 all the time (I know cuz she would complain about being any higher) , which I've never gotten down to, and she never had any stomach fat whatsoever. She had a baby a year ago and for once in her life hasn't bounced back to being skinny like she used to, and I feel like shes putting it on me. I've lost maybe 15 pounds over 2 years and a half 1, I'm finally getting out of my "awkward body stage" (I'm 16), 2 I've cut out drinking soda like I did all the time, and replaced it with water. THATS IT. I haven't tried to change whatsoever. And when I was a chubby kid/preteen, she would always put me down for it. I'm sick of never being good enough for her 😒😒😒