So my husband and I started dating in March of last year, got engaged in August and married in December. Before we were together he was in a not so serious relationship with this crazy chick.

When we first started dating she would constantly text him about some stuff of his she still had trying to meet up and give it to him and asking for her stuff back (which I had already thrown away. sorrynotsorry) and just being a typical jealous ex. Her favorite line was about how I was such a "home wrecker" if that gives you any idea. She threatened me many times and then all of the sudden when we got engaged she magically wants to be friends, and claims she bought us wedding gifts from our registry. (I checked, what she said she bought, wasn't gone)

I'm leaving a LOT out but I'll move on to the new story.

since we've been married we haven't heard from her. Our last fight she blocked me on Facebook claimed to delete his number all that whatever.

Then Friday he gets a phone call from her while he's at work, didn't answer but she left voicemail then sent a text.

So knowing this is gonna piss me off, he text me like "My ex called today, I didn't answer but she's asking if I have any of her stuff, I know you'd want to know"

Of course this pisses me off. The stupid girl knows better than to try and text my man so I hit her up on Facebook (btw I'm magically unblocked now) and I'm asking why she's hitting up my man asking about her stuff, because it's been established more than once, anything she ever touched has been thrown out, LONG gone. Then she feeds me this story about how she's supposed to graduate college next month and the school won't let her apply for graduation until they get her high school diploma and she can't find it anywhere and thought maybe my husband had it.

**RED FLAG. I've never heard of a college that waits until graduation to see that you finished high school. AND they want your high school transcripts, grades and stuff not a diploma. AND who hits up exes who are MARRIED looking for their shit? Go to your high school and get a copy, it's free and you don't have to risk your life at the hands of an angry wife in the process. K?**

So I'm all like "oh that sucks. But we don't have any of your stuff"

Then the chick has the audacity to tell me I need to "act like an adult about it" and guess what, blocks me again.

This is the pettiest I get. But seriously. The whole situation is so fishy. Hindsight I feel like she was just trying to play that causal hoe move trying to get back with an ex or something idk.

Is it appropriate for her to be calling? I could be overreacting just because it's her and what's happened in the past but idk. What do y'all think?