TTC got me like 😣

Been trying for 6 months (not long compared to some, I know) but this past month I thought it was for sure, even AF was super late, but no, she found her way back and seems like she's punishing me with a super heavy one this month. I was so happy, so excited, I FELT pregnant, my fiance was getting excited, I told my mom it was possibly happening. Now I'm torn on whether or not to try harder or less. I know the old saying of "when you're not trying is when it'll happen", but it's so hard not to log everything and try everything I can. I've been thinking of trying preseed but I don't want to put so much pressure on him either. So many things running through my head!