Husbands Birthday and feeling bad

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Tomarrow (8/29) is my husbands 40th birthday.. and for the last 3 weeks we have been going threw a very stressful and rough time.. cant really explain what's going on ... but all I can say is if we stick together and stay strong that we will beat this, get my son back home and move forward. but back to my husbands 40th birthday Tomarrow .. I really don't know what to do or get for him.. I wish my son was home to help me out with ideas.. any suggestions? I'm loss... stressed... and dont know what to do.