I really personally don't care if:

1) My boyfriend masterbates, why would I? Those are his genitals, men are men and sometimes that's what they call their alone time. He doesn't need MY permission to touch HIS genitals.

2) I don't care if he watches porn to masterbate, it's a video of a woman with unrealistic expectations getting railed and moaning excessively... why would I care about that? I'd rather him be listening to moaning or something instead of staring blankly at a wall trying to get off 😂 & like I said if he's doing it, it's none of my business OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND & if I caught him then I'd probs just join 🤷🏼‍♀️

3) I don't care about strip clubs, those women JUST want his money. They have their own shit to worry about. I've gone with him and his friends a couple times & shit, the strippers were really nice to me bc I wasn't rude & treated them with respect.

Idk maybe I'm just more comfortable with myself & trust him more? I'm just sick of the dead horse being beaten on this one and everyone freaking out that their SO is somehow "cheating" with all of this.