So before I got pregnant (say 4 years ago), my husband and I were discussing being pregnant and I asked him if he would join me in not drinking for 9 months while I was pregnant. At the time he hesitated and then said he wouldn't drink if it meant a lot to me, which it did at the time.

Oh super quick back story, he comes from a family of heavy drinkers and his sister in law drank pretty regularly through her pregnancies.

Fast forward 4 years and I'm pregnant finally. I completely forgot about the drinking thing since I have a million other things on my mind, but the hubby asked me if it was okay if he drank with dinner... (just a glass of this super awesome alcoholic lemonade!). I told him sure... didn't mind.

Now question... should I ask him again to join me or just let it go? Maybe I'll just ask if he will promise to never over do it so I don't have to be his DD... (I am the family DD). I personally don't care but I also just don't want to deal with a drunk hubby..

Thoughts?