14dpo, no sign of AF

Today I was supposed to start my period and I didn't. I have no symptoms of AF. I have a very small amount of creamy white discharge, I am extremely exhausted all the time, my cervix is soft and low. Also, I have to pee very often, and when I do it never fails, but I will take my time urinating and when I get up I feel like I have to urinate again and sometimes a little will dribble out. I had sex during my fertile window several times as we are trying to convince. I've read some other posts on some of the groups on here, and most people are saying to test just to be sure. How long should I wait before I test? Thanks in advance! Baby dust to everyone!! ✨✨✨