So I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and it's going really well, we've been on two vacations, another planned for this weekend, and we're not arguing or bickering anymore so I thought we were getting really close. I've been ill a bit so he has been looking after me a bit and today I told him that someone asked if I thought he could be the one and I told them that I thought so. He didn't really respond to this so I got a bit quiet but not visibly upset or anything so we go to walk my dog and he says that he's been crying today with his dad. I asked what was up and he says recently he's been feeling like we're more best mates than romantic partners. I was really upset by this as they way he worded it sounded like a break up more than anything. He tried to explain it but I just couldn't take anything in. He agrees he needs to take me out more often (which I have told him before) as maybe that's where its lacking. He also said he doesn't feel a spark anymore (ouch) and that were not as intimate anymore (which is true but I've been ill and it's difficult when you live with parents). I don't know what to do as he wants to make it work but I'm not sure now; he's my world and I love him but he's hurt me like all other guys have by saying this. I know he needs to but I've told him how I've been hurt before and it feels like he's going to hurt me know I don't know if I can forgive him for making

me cry this much or trust him again?

Much needed advice please girls