Okay, someone please help me out.

This is something I've been really insecure about for a long time, my vagina.

I can't shave it. My hair is so coarse that I bleed every time.

I get pimples on my outer labia, and sometimes they are really noticeable. (I shower every day, doctors say it's a skin condition)

I had a baby. I feel loose, and I'm no longer with my child's father so guys are less understanding.

Please help me out. I've been so insecure, and it's not good because I don't perform well when I'm self conscious, if you know what I mean.