this will be a long post and I apologise and thank you in advance for the advice. I am recently out of a 3months relationship with a guy who, though that's not what he said, broke up with me basically because I would not have sex without a condom and he really can't orgasm while wearing one. I have come to terms with the fact that while I was happy with the sex, and I also don't orgasm (I usually get close, and then unconsciously pull back before it turned to a full on orgasm, happens everytime), and I have come to the conclusion that his problem was not my problem, cause short of not wearing a condom I went overboard trying to fix him... Now I started seeing a guy pretty soon after said breakup and though I told him I wanted to take it slow and he was ok with it, I had sex with him after some dates... don't judge me, even thouh I don't orgasm, I like sex! The dating actually seems to be going well, but the sex was meh! though he is big, and penetrative sex feels good, he seems to be rather clueless with his hands, and I don't get as turned on as I did with the other guy, so not even close to orgasm - and also a problem because, as I said, he is big... How do I solve this? I like him, and I don't want to do to him what the ex did to me... will he be mad if I give him some pointers? like, explain what I like?