Honestly guys I am so posses at my husband and his mother right now!! this is a long story so buckle up...so this was my son's first year of kindergarten and yesterday was his first day his father and I both walked him to class kissed him and said goodbye. our son stated he enjoyed his first day and couldn't wait to go back... well the next day I get a call from my son's school that his grandmother (his father's mother my mother in law) was trying to take him out of school early cause she wanted to spend time with him the school of course denied her request because simply her name is not on his pick up list which she felt like she should have been on because she is the grandmom. I received the longest text I have ever received in the 10years I have known her blowing me out about how I hurt her feelings that she was not on the list to pick up her grandchild. I simply stated to her that I felt it to be best that way because he needs to learn about school it's a world different from prek it's more structured. Well in the meanwhile hubby knows nothing because I haven't talked to him due to work hrs...so his mother sends him a text and calls him crying saying that it broke her heart that she couldn't get her grandchild when she wanted to from school...well guess who got the blame for everything!!! I DID...my husband has taken his mother side once again everytime she pretends to shed a tear he takes her side and the thing is he even agreed that we the parents would be the only 2 picking up our child so now I'm pissed because my husband never sides with me against his mother she is always right and I feel as if this will be the death of our marriage...I feel that as long as she has a hold on him our kids and marriage will always come second to his mama ladies give me some advice was I wrong I mean I feel like I wasn't wrong but I'm so pissed too smdh