Am I the only one who gets pissed?

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okay, so me and this girl has been friends for like 15 years, she's my best friend.  Well, I'm always there for her no matter what situation it is no matter what time it is. I've been in fights because of her, and I basically do everything for her. Well, I'm having a rough night tonight, I explain what's wrong and all she says is 'Sorry.' LEGIT ALL SHE SAID. 😤 I'm super pissed off because whenever she called me at 4 in the am Sunday morning I stayed up and talked to her. I was there when she needed me. But guess what? She isn't there for me. She doesn't want to hear my problems. She doesn't want to help me when I'm down. But yet I'm always there for her. 🤔 Pissed. 😤

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I had a friend like this. Eventually I just stopped responding her and now we don't speak at all. That "friendship" was not worth my time or emotional distress. She turned everything I said around to be about her. I could literally have a leg falling off and somehow somewhere that same thing would have happened to her and she would have went on and on about it. I mourn what our friendship was before it became to that point, but one day I decided I deserved better.

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I had a friend like this. Didn't cut her out until she didn't come to my wedding because she went to Myrtle Beach to get drunk. She planned that after the date was set. Oh and talked about me on Facebook to my ex, who is her best friend. Oh well. I'm not hurt about it.

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I had a "friend" like this. I think our friendship made it to just shy of 20 years when I said enough was enough.

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I had a friend like this, and she would recognize that I was always there for her, but she would never lift a finger to help me or anything. Once I met my husband we grew apart. I've made attempts to see her many times and she never follows through. Needless to say, I don't talk to her often anymore and to be honest, I don't miss her that much. It's actually exhausting to be there for someone who never returns the favor. So, I guess my advice would be to start distancing yourself from her. Find out if her friendship is really true, and if you really value her in your life as much as you think you do now. You might be surprised like I was. Good luck!

Am I the only one who gets pissed?

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