IUI ended up a failure, I give up!!!

So I had an IUI done on the 14th and the drs were really certain I ovulated with 3 mature eggs with the help of clomid. I went in every day for blood and ultrasound. I have had symptoms up the walls and now im thinking it was the progesterone pills the whole time fuckin with me. I went in for a blood draw yesterday (15 days after iui) and it was negative. I did a urine test Monday Afternoon and I could have sworn I saw a faint positive. Hmmm now Im wondering what actually is wrong with me cuz AF is now 3 days late!!!!!!! Whyyy, I have no faith in Drs.... Im so tired of all this shit. On top of that the week of IUI we found out my dh has a herniated disc, which the pain and stress prolly affected his count and as to why it was only 1.2 mil, very low....but when he did a seman analysis before the iui he had 50mil. so now Im gonna wait until he is 100% to try IVF this time...I refuse to do an IUI again... but can someone please explain y AF hasnt shown her Ugly Face!!! 🤔