Wait until you're married to have a baby or have one before married to your SO?

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Basically my fiance and I have been together 3 years. I'm 19 he is 25. We plan to have a baby in the next year or so, but won't get married a year after that. My aunt thinks I need to be married first. Opinions?

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My fiance had our first baby before we were engaged. We just got engaged a few months ago and now we're trying for baby number two. We'll be getting married in September of 2019. I say do what you feel is right.

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I'm 19 been with my SO 4 years and are having a baby and definitely not getting married for a couple more years!

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My boyfriend and I got engaged over a year ago. We are both 19. We are now expecting a little baby boy we didn't plan to have until later in life after we got married. I would say its fine to have a baby before your married. We probably won't end up getting married for a couples years now.

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You do whatever you guys want. Me and my SO have been together almost 2 years and are on our second baby. We have plans to get married next August, have started planning and all that. We aren't telling his family about this baby till we get our engagement photos out because we will have all the shaming come our way. But we don't care. It's Gods plan for us. He knows what He is doing and we are trusting Him. People believe you shouldn't have kids before marriage but honestly, I think having a child before you get married prepares you for marriage. Gives you a little taste ❤️

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Me and my fiancé have been together 4 years. I'm 19, he's 20 and I'm 16 weeks pregnant.. we get some crap for not being married from older people but we don't care. If you are ready you're ready. Nobody can tell you if you can or can't. Don't let it get to you. I wish you the best of luck❤️

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Go with the flow. Whatever makes you happy.

Wait until you're married to have a baby or have one before married to your SO?

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