I had my 20 week anatomy scan today found out it's a girl which is what the dad and I both wanted as he has 2 boys already. My mother gave me to my grandmother when I was 4 days old she didn't think she could take care of me, now that I'm oregnant she wants to buy everything and not let the dad buy nothing. I try to be happy but she makes it hard. I got a diaper bag I liked when I first found out and she said it's a boy color which I don't think it is. Besides I'm the one going to be carrying the bag so I should like it I liked it until she said something. I picked out my stroller and car seat and she wants me to wait and look at other stores. This is all just so overwhelming I want to be happy and enjoy baby shopping and my pregnant specially since this is my first baby, i dont know how to not hurt her feelings I know I have a say but since she's buying everything I try to keep my mouth shut. My feelings end up hurt tho!

Sorry this is long I have nobody to talk to so I came here. 💔😭😭😭