Difficulty finding the right BC

I can't take either hormone birth control pills. Estrogen pills gave me 25 migraines a month which continued for three months after stopping the pills because it was still in my system. This cost me an arm and a leg of medical procedures, MRIs and medication to manage the migraines. I can't take progestin because it caused vertigo so bad that I was out of work for two straight months. Even sitting up in bed caused the vertigo to spin so bad I would vomit immediately. This also cost me an arm and a leg to go to an ENT and an audiologist because my gyno didn't believe me that the pills were causing the vertigo because he had "never seen that and it just sounds absurd." 😒 I've now got a non hormonal IUD but it took five months of pain, low libido, heavy periods lasting 11 days, and feeling like crap before I finally went back to my regular norm. Y'all, I'm just frustrated! Why do women have to go through this? Has anyone else has similar difficulty finding the right BC?