Okay, so I am doing a study for my psychology class and need your help

For those who have cheated on their wife or husband: what was the reason why you cheated? Did you fall in love with your lover? If you left your spouse for your lover, did it work out? If you felt guilty, how long did it take you to forgive yourself? If your spouse forgave you, how was the marriage since the affair? Did you eventually get a divorce anyways?

There should be NO judgement here.