Ok, so I don't know what to do really. Me and my brother don't really get on, he blames me and my parents (only mum now since dad died back in May) for his whole life and situation. We both have ADHD, he's only just been diagnosed whereas I've known since I was a kid. He also suffers from other mental illnesses. I try to understand. But it's hard when he wants to control what I put on social media. I'm to ask and send a copy of any photos I want to put up of him or his daughter. I'm also not to put my whole life on there, I like too many videos etc. We have limited contact with him and his wife and daughter because of what happened growing up. Let's just say he remembers only what he wants to, and even then not all of it is accurate, it's his perception and not what actually happened. I'm trying to be patient and understanding, but there's only so much I can take. I don't know what to do. His daughter will grow up wondering what the hell happened. His wife is the strongest woman ever! She's putting up with this, plus his refusing to do work in the house, his criticising work other people do for free for them, and his constant wanting to quit work, which he keeps doing. We have a great relationship with his wife, she's trying her best to get through to him and she wants us to spend time with their daughter. I just 😡😤 brick wall anyone?

The message below was sent at 3.26am, while I was asleep. I haven't replied to him, because honestly I haven't got the energy! I'm still grieving the loss of our dad as well, I think he forgets this sometimes and just lashes out.