Am I overreacting & being bitchy for saying no to my friend?
This will be kinda long so please bear with me!
So I got to know a new friend for about a few months now and we got pretty close. We were from the same hometown and I recently went back to my hometown so I asked her if she have any stuffs for me to bring it back home to her parents. She gave me a big bag of random stuffs.
The next day she asked me if I could bring 5 bottles of juice shakes and I agreed despite being hesitated about it. And it turns out she bought 5 packs of it which is 25 bottles.....
I helped her to bring it over since I offered it in the first place. I even drove 1 hour to her parents' place to give it to them.
Now that she knows I'll be going back home next week, she asked me if I could buy some food products for her (she said she couldn't find it there). And I kindly said no because I didn't feel comfortable taking food in my luggage.
And a week later, she asked me to buy 4 packs of personal hygiene stuffs for her and I bought it because I thought it wasn't such a big deal & its about 10 bucks. I thought that was the end of it.
Yesterday night she once again asked me to buy 8 packs of hand lotions for her and said she couldn't get them there. I was beyond pissed and said sorry I couldn't. She seems to be unhappy about it. I brushed it off saying that if I could find it then I'll get it and she's like "fine, it's everywhere though". My Bf thinks she's just making use of me. But I find it so hard to say no to someone especially if it's someone close.
Also I felt like maybe she feels that I owe her a favour as she offered me to stay a night at her place (I live 5 hours away from the airport and she's right beside it) when I'm going back home. I think I am just going to book a hotel instead.
And her daughter was just in our hometown last weekend and I googled online that you can get those stuff on amazon. She's rich too.
Am I being bitchy about this situation? Help... :(
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