ive always been an anxious person, so when my bf and i started having sex we made sure we were being as safe as possible. we use condoms the correct way, and he pulls out with the condom on before ejaculation. we always have the condom on before any contact. even though I know were being extremely safe, i cant seem to manage my anxiety of getting pregnant. every twinge, instance of spotting, or late or early period makes me so nervous. All of this combined with anxiety over other things is really taking a toll on us. My bf literally doesnt even want to have sex anymore because even one time doing it makes me worry. I dont want to feel this way and medicine makes it worse for me so thats not an option. what could i do to not worry as much and reassure myself that were being safe? i also just want to enjoy the sex with my bf without worries.