Not sure if I'm a virgin anymore or not....?

Hey y'all. So I recently posted asking for sex advice. I visited my boyfriend down at his school this weekend. Last night and this morning and this afternoon we fooled around.

For those of you who don't know I was abused by my ex. So there for I'm terrified of anything sex-based, being held down, hands raised, etc.

Anyways, my boyfriend was super sweet and kind and went so slow. While he never entered me with his dick, he managed to get a finger or two in before I had a total meltdown/flashback and all he did is hold me and tell me it's gonna be okay and he would never do anything past what I was comfortable with and he would always be there to protect me.

Anyways, would y'all say I'm still a virgin.... or not?