Omg I literally can't do this anymore. I've never orgasmed and it's getting really frustrating. I don't know what the issue is. I definitely know I can't orgasm vaginally, but have almost gotten there with clitoral stimulation.

What sucks is that when I'm masturbating I am *almost* there, and either it leaves or touching my clit starts to hurt so I can't keep going. I've tried lube and it really doesn't help.

Does anyone have any recommendations? I really would only appreciate recommendations from people who have been through this.

If you've used a sex toy, what do you recommend?