I feel really strongly about not wanting visitors really at the hospital, but the ones that do need to be there I absolutely don't want anyone taking photos of me or my newborn before I'm capeable of it. And even once I am cleaned up and capeable I really still don't want anyone taking pictures of my baby... ecspecially posting them. I don't have Facebook so i don't want my babies face to end up on someones timeline not even my moms... does this make me a bitch? I really don't know why I feel this way. Also everyone keeps saying how excited they are to " babysit all day and take naps with my baby" I really don't feel like I want my baby in anyone's care while their still newborns. Like or even until they are eating solid foods... idk why I feel this way or if its normal...? How about y'all