what does it mean when my boy friend puts his hand on my thighs? he is my first boy friend and well i had my first kiss with him too and before him i would talk to guys but the most they have done is hold my hand or grab my ass but like what should i do when he puts his hand on my thigh? should i hold his hand or idk kisss him or something else ? like we were just sitting together in the car and he put his hand on my thigh and i didnt know what to do so i just kept eating my food with both of my hands