Dating a man with a low sex drive

Em

Anybody else in this boat? All my relationships prior to this one have been extremely physical, but my new man just really doesn't care about sex or physical intimacy. Its like he goes through "phases" where we are sexual for a few months at a time, and then not sexual at all in the months following. He is extremely kind and sweet, we spend almost every day together, so he isn't distant or seeing somebody else. He just has a low drive. As much as I know it has nothing to do with his feelings for me, I can't help but feel like he doesn't love me or isn't attracted to me because he doesn't want sex. Has anybody else been in this situation?? How do I get over my insecurities about it?