Just so we’re clear, I’m definitely not anti-oral sex. If I found a significant other who I was willing to do it for, the least I would ask for is them to return the favor. But I have never felt deeply enough to do so, so I dont expect it in return. I think that I'll only do it if I fell In love with someone who accepted the fact that I'm not going to do it for them, and they wouldn't push it, and once I was comfortable or maybe married than I would do it. People get so mad when they think oral automatically comes with sex. Honestly sex is suppose to be about connecting and showing love to each other and people put it as just "oh my god I had the best one night stand" and then guys will be like "she got her face fucked last night, such a slut" I'm done. I swear people have put sex as just something normal for people to do and it doesn't matter but it is something so much more than that. I just find it degrading.. and I'm unable to do it. Am I the only one? I can't give a blowjob. And I can't have sex in doggy style either. It makes me uncomfortable. Am I the only one? Any advice?