How to do anal sex

My husband and I tried anal last night, with 2 different positions. We couldn't get it to go in. I think it may have been the positions (missionary and from the side) I don't like doggy style so we can do that. We used a lot of lube, but we just couldn't get it in. It would go in a tiny bit then come out, like my body was pushing it out even though I wasn't moving, I was being calm, not contracting my muscles. For the brief time it was in, it burned really bad.

Any tips?

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Ni

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you have a muscle just inside the anus that pushes back. thats also where you feel the burning. honestly doggy is the easiest way to do it.

Ci

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You should try cumming first before he goes near your ass. Does a good job at relaxing your muscles down there. Plus then it will already be some what lubed up

Pa

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for a start...go with the spoon position... which will not allow for deep Penetration or you do cow girl style which you haven't total control of the dept you want to go.. you have to be really prepared for it thou with lots of lubes. good luck

Da

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Breath a lot.. Don't force it in, also work slowly.