4th lost

So I've just recently had my 4th pregnancy lost due to ectopic pregnancy & I just feel so defeated. Like why dose this keep happening to me. We both want a baby so bad but it just doesn't seem to be in the cards for us. My doctor just told me that she doesn't know why this keeps happening to me & that I should look into IVF treatment bc she don't want to see me with another ectopic pregnancy 😔. I'm so over being excited just to be let down weeks later. Plus I can't afford Ivf right. Praying Everything gets better & God bless me with a miracle baby