I have been with my husband for ten years and married for 3. I love this man very deeply and I have worked tirelessly on our relationship. Sadly, I found out 3 weeks ago that he was having affairs with random women on the internet, using several dating sites. He admitted to cheating and he said it had only been for the last couple months but when I looked through his email I found out he had been on these dating sites for the last 7 years!!!! I asked him what he wanted to do and he said he was ready for a divorce and he has already moved out. We are trying to sell our house and we have to split up our pets (thank God we have no children). I know that what he did was wrong and unforgivable but I am still in love with this man and I so desperately want things to go back to normal. I know they never will be again and I wouldn't want to be with him again but I am at such a loss. I feel like the last 7 years of our relationship has been a lie and I am now so lonely and depressed. I am seeing a therapist and I have reached out to family but I have never been in so much pain in my entire life. I want to know that things get better and that I will find healing and love some day. Right now, I am very unsure of my future.