Contractions--How did you know?

Question

I know they say it'll get worse and the 3-1-1 rule, but how did you know when it was just starting? I want to make sure I text my husband to head home in time, don't eat anything crazy, etc. hehe
I keep getting contractions and Braxton Hicks randomly, so just wondering if anyone knew when it was for real! Just a pattern?

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I questioned what was happening to me for hours!  it just felt like a really bad period, which you haven't felt in months so it's pretty noticable.  it was hard for me to say when they started and when they stopped.  it was a very gradual and slow process.  I can honestly say I was in labor at 9am but we went for breakfast, went to Target, Lowe's, I washed the kitchen floor, cleaned, etc.  I didn't say anything to my husband until about 6pm.  my plan was to labor at home as long as possible.  I'm glad I did because it's so much more comfortable at home.  The best way I can tell you how to tell it's time is when you start to feel like your loosing control of your body.  THEN it's time to go to the hospital.  If you can't talk, walk, etc. That's the indicator I used based on Ina May's book.  Sitting there counting contractions makes it worse sometimes.  Or, you think it's done and it's not so do you count that as 1 or 2 contractions?  I found counting very hard and confusing while I'm trying to work through the pain.

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The intensity is what will tell you. For most there is a stark contrast in discomfort between BH and true active labor.

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Yup! You guys are right. About 9 hours later and definitely in labor!

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Everyone one of my nurses doula and dr say 5-1-1 rule. Idk. I think you just know. But I have my timer set on the bed with me a lot lately. They say labor happens a lot while at night.

Contractions--How did you know?

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