Is it just me ? 🤷🏻‍♀️

I've been thinking lately and I wondered if it was just me but I honestly hardly ever make out with my bf ... we've been together for 3 1/2 years now and we rarely do but I know it's because of me I always turn it down. But I'm just not ever really in the mood to make out ? And even when we get intimate I don't really get turned on like I used to it's like I'm rarely ever wet anymore. I do love him a lot so it's not because I don't have feeling or attraction towards him. Is there just something wrong with me ? 🤔