SO FUCKING ANNOYED

My fiancée is such a sweet, funny, loving man and I love him so much. But he's constantly making plans or promises to me, and then backing out at the last minute. Not necessarily huge things, but like last night, we were getting freaky, and I gave him a blow job. He said he felt bad that I couldn't also get off, so he told me he'd go down on me today. Well I just said I was gonna go shave so it wasn't too prickly for him, and he says "uh, yeah that's not gonna happen..." And then just went back to playing video games. Or he'll promise to come swim or work out with me, and then back out. Sorry, I'm just annoyed and venting.