My boyfriend and I have been a little more sexually active recently. I'm still a virgin but he has gone down on me and fingered me. We are also in a long distance relationship and we kianda gave plans to have actual sex next time he comes visit, most likely around my birthday, birthday sex🤔. Anyways the past two times that he has gone down on me including this past weekend my hands start to fall asleep. From my fingertips to my wrists. I get very irritated bc it distracts me from enjoying myself and it doesn't allow me to orgasm. Last weekend I ended up crying bc I felt like a failure. I felt bad bc it wasn't his fault that I couldn't orgasm and I didn't wanted him to feel like that about me. But we talked about it and his sweetheart ass made me feel better and cuddle me trying to make me smile. I love this man. Then I suggested that maybe we could try different positions, maybe one were I'm on my hands so that the blood would flow differently. I don't know. But we later on ended up with me laying on my stomach and him on top of me. He was fingering and kissing my back and neck. And I start to stimulate my clit. It too m a while but I did orgasms. My hands fell asleep again but maybe about a 3 from 10.

Someone know what is causing this or knows how I can make it stop.

Pls help a girl get orgasms lol