How do you announce pregnancy to someone who struggles with infertility?

Amanda

My brother and his wife have been ttc for a while now and recently found out their only option is going to be <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> or adoption. They are really upset about it. I myself have struggled with ttc but I have a 2.5 year old and recently found out I am expecting our second. I do not want to upset them. I've told my mom and dad but not my brother. Everyone's reaction when I told them the news was "oh, that's going to break your brothers heart" or "your brother is going to be so upset" I don't want to hurt them but I can't hide it forever. I also don't want to lie! :( What is the best way to break the news gently without causing a fuss? If anyone has suffered with infertility themselves, please tell me how you'd prefer it to be done?