I am at a loss. And I was needed some advice or suggestions. My SO and i have been together almost 2 years and have tried a few different things but nothing seems to help. Oral sex is not much fun for me, my clit is so over sensitive that it either tickles way too much or it's painful. And I so badly wish it worked the way it should buy it has always been this way. are there any women who have this problem and have figured out what works for them that I might be able to try?