Okay so me and the guy I'm with were having a conversation and I asked him what he would want me to do if I ever got pregnant. We have sex without a condom because im allergic to them and we both just don't like them. Im not on birth control or anything (im scared to get on birth control because I'm scared that when I want to have a baby I won't be able to.) but he told me he would want me to get an abortion. I personally don't believe in abortion under this circumstance. But he has a son already. Should I leave him? I know I should get on birth control but I'm scared. I know we're not ready as a couple to have a baby and no I'm not pregnant but I always think of the what ifs ig. I'm 17 and he's 22.