My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 moths and he is swearing that he loves me so much and wants to have a baby. What should I think?

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He swears he won't leave, wants to get us a house, and wants us to get married. He is just now starting the police academy and works for his father. I am still finishing school. Sometimes I get the feeling I want a baby to but I know I'm not financially ready but socially I am. Thoughts?

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Get a house together get financially stable and get to know each other better, then revisit the idea of having kids

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Tell him you're worth making a wife first, not just his baby mama.

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4 months? Not even in 3 years! You guys have to learn so much more about each other imo...

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Live together for at least a year first. You don't really know someone until then, and you shouldn't have a baby with someone you don't know.

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Its something you need to talk about with him - Not get advice from randoms online.

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Please dont listen to these young naive ones on here who are just hyping you up to make a hasty choice. Actually think about what you'd be giving up and what you're choosing to endure. Listen to your gut and demand better for yourself and future. Your future children will thank you for that. Trust me. 😊

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My boyfriend and I have been together almost 10 years and the topic gets brought up often because we each have a child from previous relationships and want one of our own.
We agreed tho to wait til we have a place, the money and I'm done with college.

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What is his rush?! Go with your gut. That is a huge decision.

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tell him to prove it with his actions not just telling you what he will do or wants to do. tell him if he wants to do something for you to just do it and not tell you about it and talk about it. i always shut down these kind of conversations filled with promises and wants because 99% of the time the aim is manipulation. tell him to prove he is committed or shut it (words dont count for anything) and dont ttc until hes proven himself in real terms not just worthless promises.

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babe peoples marriages break down after 30 odd years. time doesn't make a relationship right or wrong.. if it makes you happy, go for it. Let the haters keep hating! ❤

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 moths and he is swearing that he loves me so much and wants to have a baby. What should I think?

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