I don't hate kids but I absolutely refuse to have one of those little goblins ever!!! I don't ever want the whole mommy thing it grosses me out. Does this make me a bad person?

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I dont think your a bad person for what u said but I think others might take that very offensof because there are women like me that are ttc and I been ttc for 18 months and nothing but hey its a free world freedom of speach but to answer your question no your not a bad person for speaking mind I'm a true believer in Jesus Christ and I dont judge nobody god bless u

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Nope I was totally like that. I have tons of nieces and nephew and kids just are not my thing. Then I started to see everyone around me have babies. Like my niece has a baby. I'm a great aunt. I started to yearn for one. Never had baby fever before so I wasn't sure what was wrong with me. Then I met the man of my life and it's a sure thing I want to have kids. I want to create a family with him. I want to give him the ultimate gift and share with him something so special. If you knew me before this would be a huge shock to you that I'm speaking this way lol. But maybe you will change your mind!

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I was trying to hit no but my chubby fingers accidentally hit yes. You are in no way a bad person. My sister had no desire to be a mother. NONE! Her and her husband shouldn't have been able to have children. He tested infertile due to chemo and radiation as a child and she had some issues as well. Then she became pregnant with my nephew. She was devastated. Does that make her bad? Nope. She is probably one of the best mothers I know. People who don't want or like Children are not bad. It's just who they are. Just like people who want 20 kids.

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haha, nothing wrong with not wanting kids, just try not to call kids goblins around moms and say being a mommy is gross. I'm not really offended at all. I just think there are a lot of hormonal mommies to be here who might feel like you just said they're gross.

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I'm the same way and I come from a strict LDS family at that. And I live in the Bible Belt of Michigan. I've heard it all.
"Well someday you'll want them." Because they can see the future. 
"My daughter was like that and now she has more kids than all of her siblings combined. You'll be the same way!" Again, they can see the future. 
"If your mother had thought that way, you wouldn't be here." Why does my mom's choice mean that I'm obligated to do the same??
"But think of all the women who want to get pregnant but can't!" My wanting kids won't make them pregnant. 
"But who's going to take care of you in your old age?" Idk family, friends, random people in nursing homes? 
"But it's our job to multiply and replenish the earth!" Bitch the earth is over populated. 
"That's very selfish of you." How??? They never have an answer for this. 
I've had strangers, doctors, family, friends, and co-workers tell me this shit. It's ridiculous.

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Noo, not every woman wants to have kids of their own. My best friend doesn't ever want any kids but was always exited and waiting for me to have one lol. Not wanting kids doesn't make you a bad person, as for calling them goblins and saying the whole thing grosses you out (as someone pointed out that some women may have a problem with it) it doesn't offend me at all and I'm a hormonal mummy to be lol. If that's how you feel then that's how you feel, everybody is different ☺ it doesn't define who you are as a person

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I don't dislike kids either but I also don't want any of my own. I have an 8-year-old stepdaughter, but have never felt clucky or wanted my own biological children. don't get me wrong, I love my stepdaughter to death, but no more kids for me, no thanks ✌I don't think the decision not to procreate makes anyone a "bad person", it's just a lifestyle choice. personally I think I'm too selfish to have my own children, I'm still young and am yet to travel the world and build a decent career for myself. If I were to have children now it would bring everything I'm trying to accomplish in life to a halt and I don't think I could be happy. Maybe I'll reassess when I'm older, have seen the world, and am financially stable. But for now, nope.

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I hit yes I meant NO!!! lol Iam sorry ! But no this does not make you a bad person !its okay not EVERYONE wants to be a mom I didn't growing up I said HELL NO ! NO KIDS!!lol my story was Iam going to graduate get my masters in nursing have my own place with 4 dogs and 1 fish not get serious until after I have a nursing career and look at me 20 with my 2nd on the way and in love with a WONDERFUL MAN who is currently getting me breakfast and is gonna rub my feet 😂😂😂👊🏻 but people change so you never know you might end up having 6 😂😂 you are your own person 💕 do what you want 💁🏻💝

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kids aren t for everyone and that's ok. no you're not a bad person.

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Not bad at all!! Just because you're a woman  doesn't mean you automatically like kids and want to have them! Everyone is different. You do you! People can't even take offense to it and if they do, too bad!

I don't hate kids but I absolutely refuse to have one of those little goblins ever!!! I don't ever want the whole mommy thing it grosses me out. Does this make me a bad person?

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